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千萬不要得罪你公司領導的那些馬屁精，因為很有可能他們的一句話就會讓你所有的努力白費。

Don‘t offend those apple-polishers at your company manager， because one word from them could make all your hard work go down the drain。

一個剛進入職場的人，千萬不要著急著去搞什麼人脈，其實人情世故這個東西，是那些自己本身能力資源比較好的人才能夠掌握的，而你剛進入職場，沒有能力，沒有資源，根本沒有人會理你，這個時候你需要提升的是你自己本身的能力。

A man just coming into the workplace， don’t try so hard to make what connections， actually this thing ways of the world， are those who own resources better talent ability to master， and you just enter the workplace， no ability， no resources， no people often， at this time you need to increase your ability to itself。

下班期間，沒有十萬火急的事情，千萬不要隨便的給領導打電話，這會給他留下一個很不好的印象。

During the off-duty period， if there is no urgent matter， do not call the leader casually， it will leave him a very bad impression。

不要老是想著把自己高興的事情分享給別人，你要記住，這個世界上除了你自己的父母之外，恐怕沒有幾個人是真心的為你高興，更多的是你可能會招來嫉妒。

Instead of trying to share what makes you happy with others， remember that few people in the world are genuinely happy for you， except your own parents， and you are likely to attract jealousy。

如果急用錢，需要向別人借錢的話，一定要記得打借條，並且要明確歸還日期，這樣別人借錢給你才會感到安心。

If you are in a hurry and need to borrow money from someone， make sure you make an IOU with a clear date of return so that people will feel comfortable lending you money。

到一個新的環境裡，不要急於表現自己，過早地暴露自己的全部實力，對任何人都應該保留30%的神秘感。

When you move to a new environment， don‘t be too eager to show yourself， reveal your full strength too early， and keep 30% of your mystery to anyone。

跟一些不是很熟悉的人發訊息，如果能打字的話就千萬不要發語音，幫別人節省時間，就是對別人最大的尊重。

With some people who are not very familiar with the message， if you can type words do not send voice， help others save time， is the greatest respect to others。

人與人之間的感情其實很脆弱，千萬不要跟你的朋友扯上利益關係，一旦你們的感情牽扯到了利益，那麼這段感情很有可能就會走到終點。

The relationship between people is actually very fragile， do not pull with your friends in the interests of the relationship， once your relationship involved in the interests， then this relationship is likely to come to an end。

女孩子不要隨便接受別人的禮物，如果你對這個人沒有意思的話，那麼不要去收別人的禮物，有很多時候你收了別人的禮物就是默認了某些事情。

Girls should not casually accept gifts from others， if you do not have interest in the person， then do not accept gifts from others， a lot of times you accept a gift from others is a tacit acceptance of certain things。

生活中一些能夠用錢解決的事情，就千萬不要動用人情，你要知道人情真的比錢更貴，因為你永遠都還不完。

In life， you should never use favor for things that can be solved with money。 You should know that favor is really more expensive than money， because you can never pay it back。